Speed Dating Events
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What to Expect at NYC Speed Dating
Speed dating events in New York City bring together 15–40 single professionals at a bar or lounge. You rotate through 3–7 minute one-on-one conversations, then submit your matches. No awkward cold approaches — just structured, fun mini-dates.
- ✓ Events run weekday evenings and weekends across Manhattan, Brooklyn, and Queens
- ✓ Ticket prices typically $25–$65 depending on organizer and venue
- ✓ Age-specific, orientation-specific, and faith-specific events available
- ✓ Post-event matching: both parties must like each other to connect
Quick Stats
- Avg. event cost
- $25–$65 per person
- Mini-date length
- 3–7 minutes each
- People per event
- 15–40 singles
- Match rate
- ~40% find at least one match
- NYC boroughs covered
- Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens
Frequently Asked Questions
How much do speed dating events in NYC cost? ▼
Speed dating events in New York City typically cost $25–$65 per person. Prices vary by organizer, venue, and event type. Specialty events (Jewish, LGBTQ+, professional) may range $35–$85.
How does speed dating work in NYC? ▼
At a NYC speed dating event, you meet 10–20 potential matches in a series of 3–7 minute one-on-one "dates" at a bar or venue. After the event, you submit your matches online and get connected if both parties liked each other.
What are the best speed dating companies in New York? ▼
Top speed dating operators in NYC include NY Minute Dating, CitySwoon, WeekendDating, MyCheekyDate, and Plenty of Parties. Eventbrite also lists events from independent organizers.
Are there speed dating events by age in NYC? ▼
Yes. NYC has dedicated speed dating nights for 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50+ singles. Age-specific events are common and ensure you meet people in your life stage.
Is there gay speed dating in NYC? ▼
Yes. Gay, lesbian, and queer speed dating events are held regularly in NYC. MyCheekyGayDate, Eventbrite, and Plenty of Parties list LGBTQ+ speed dating nights in Manhattan and Brooklyn.
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